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Court Forces Non-Religious Mom to Get Therapy From Bible-Thumping Counselor or Lose Custody of Sons

A non-religious mother from Albuquerque, New Mexico, was ordered by a judge to seek counselling for her son from a Christian counselor.

It didn’t take long for things to breakdown. Mary Pepper, the counselor, continuously pushed his religion on Holly Salzman and her son.

“I walked into the session and the very first thing she said to me was, ‘I start my sessions by praying,’” Salzman said. “When I expressed my concerns that I didn’t pray she said, ‘well this is what I do’ and she proceeded to say a prayer out loud.”

Salzman felt trapped because the session were court ordered.

“You don’t have a choice. You do it or you’re held in contempt of court.”

When Salzman approached the court and explained the issues she was having with Pepper, the court denied her complaints and reassured her that they had never heard complaints about Pepper and her religious ferocity in the past.

Salzman was at a loss. She stopped attending the sessions and the court seized custody of her son.

“It’s probably the worst thing I’ve ever been through in my life,” she said.

Raw Story reports:

In order to regain custody of the boys, Salzman would have to complete the sessions. Channel 13 and Salzman worked together to covertly record three of the final sessions with Pepper.

“The meaning in my life is to know love and serve God,” Pepper told Salzman in one of the recorded meetings. “If you want to explore how God was in your past, how God was in your life and not in your life… I know you don’t believe in God which is fine but I now at some points he was in your life in some way.”

Pepper frequently handed Salzman religious tracts and gave Salzman a “homework” assignment, to write an essay titled “Who is God to me?”

“Every session there was some sort of religion that was intertwined with the sessions,” said Salzman.

When Channel 13 spoke to Pepper about blending religion with court-ordered sessions, she said, “I’m a private business that people decide to come through or not. The particular person there was interested in analyzing her belief system.”

ACLU executive director Peter Simonson said, “No one should be put in a position where they are forced to accept training or therapy that violates their own religious beliefs and morals.”

“We’ve got protections in our country under the Bill of Rights are intended to try and stop that,” Simonson said of Salzman’s experience. “On the face of it, it looks pretty problematic.”

There are other issues with Pepper’s practices. She has been holding the sessions in rooms at the public library, but charging clients for the sessions, which is illegal.

“She had actually explained to me that you need to be discrete about it because I’m not allowed to exchange money in the public library. So I had to kind of hide the money and then literally pass the money under the table,” Salzman said.

When Channel 13 pressed Pepper about these red flags, she ended the interview.

“I think that this interview needs to be ended,” Pepper said. “If you’d like to know more in private, I’d explain a lot about my business but to do this on the air is not appropriate.”

Salzman said that she completed the classes and got her sons back.

“I got a certificate and I kicked my heels on the way out,” she said.

Photo credit: Screen Capture.


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